First Day of the Rest of Your Life

It seems appropriate to say it like that, because really...kindergarten is a HUGE step! It's the last time I feel like a parent gets of the "baby" years. It's when you realize that babies don't stay babies for long. It's when you feel a little ache in your heart at the thought of trusting a bus to get your daughter to the right place at the right time, safely. It's when I realized that I have just enrolled my daughter into government control. ick. I realized this upon sitting in on her class today for the parent hour and hearing the teacher say "your child can only have 5 unexcused absences." I was a little upset about that...I should have the choice to keep my daughter home, or take her on an extended vacation any time I want to without it making me feel like it means I'm a bad mom. Don't get me wrong. I realize how important schooling is. But it ISN'T everything. I am pretty sure that most of the stuff Aspen is going to learn in kindergarten, her dad and I have already taught her. (Well, to be honest, mostly her dad has taught her. I wasn't blessed with school smarts.) I am excited however, for her to learn the social aspects of school a little more. Learning discipline, respecting adults, respecting time. Not that we haven't taught her these things, but sometimes I think a child learns better from another source then from a parent when it comes to this, since parents aren't always considered the "cool" adult. I remember being embarrassed lots of times of my own parents (shame shame) but was so influenced by other adults around me. I hope she makes good friends and great memories.

And I will wipe away a tear and let my baby grow.

First Day of Kindergarten photo. I know it's crappy...had to take it on my phone...notice how she likes to accessorize? It took me 27 years to learn to dress cute and accessorize, and Aspen picks out her own outfits and accessories. She is big into necklaces right now, and if she doesn't feel cute enough, is sure to tell me she needs something cuter. She is so much fun! Love you little big girl!